Are You Missing Purpose?

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Purpose is the invisible force that propels us forward even when obstacles appear insurmountable. In today's fast-paced world where distractions compete for our attention and derail our focus, having clarity about why we're doing what we're doing becomes the differentiating factor between those who persevere and those who surrender. Coach Mikki explains this powerful concept through the lens of both sports and life, creating a compelling framework for understanding how purpose functions as our internal compass.

When we step onto the field whether that's a literal playing field or the metaphorical field of our daily lives we must know exactly why we're there. It's not enough to have talent, skills, or even a solid game plan. Without purpose, these assets become significantly diminished in their effectiveness. As Coach Mikki eloquently puts it, "Your purpose is going to be the refuel that you're going to need each and every time, and you can't fake it." This authenticity is crucial because when unexpected challenges blindside us, only a genuine purpose will provide the strength needed to push through rather than allowing those obstacles to replace our goals.

The process of discovering your purpose begins with several fundamental questions: What is your destination? What does success look like to you? What makes you come alive each morning? These inquiries aren't merely philosophical exercises they're practical tools designed to uncover what truly drives you. Purpose must be deeply personal and meaningful. It should be something that excites you so much that you "hit the ground running every day" with anticipation and enthusiasm. For Coach Mickey, that purpose manifests in working with players, constantly seeking ways to improve both their performance and his coaching abilities. This passion creates unstoppable momentum.

Life's journey inevitably includes both peaks and valleys it's "never going to be a straight line." Coach Mikki compares life's rhythm to a heartbeat with its natural ups and downs, emphasizing that your purpose serves as the strength that elevates you from low points back to the highs. This resilience becomes particularly important when confronting limitations others place upon you. She shares personal examples of being told she couldn't coach football because of her height, gender, or lack of playing experience. Rather than accepting these judgments, she channeled her purpose into acquiring knowledge, surrounding herself with experienced mentors, and committing fully to becoming an exceptional coach despite never having played the game herself.

Perhaps one of the most profound insights is that sometimes "our pain is purpose." Those difficult experiences that shaped us can become the foundation for helping others navigate similar challenges. This transformation turns personal struggles into meaningful impact, allowing your journey even the painful parts to serve as inspiration for others. The authenticity of overcoming real obstacles resonates deeply with people who may be facing their own battles, creating a ripple effect that extends your purpose beyond yourself. When you stand firmly in your purpose, people notice that special quality and want "whatever she's got or he's got" because purpose manifests as confidence, joy, and fulfillment.

The blog post concludes with a powerful call to action: discover your purpose through introspection, write it down, and determine whether it's focused on finances, personal growth, family, or something else entirely. Though the road won't be easy, having clarity about your purpose will provide the necessary strength to persist. Coach Mikki  encourages everyone to "Go out there and do you, be strong and do everything you can to make this purpose work for you." This empowering message reminds us that when we align our actions with our authentic purpose, we unlock our true potential and create lives of meaning and impact that extend far beyond ourselves.

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